How to Get Natural, Candid Wedding Photos You’ll Love

As a wedding photographer, I hear it all the time: “We don’t want stiff, posed photos—we just want natural, candid moments!” And honestly, I couldn’t agree more! Some of the most cherished wedding photos aren’t the ones where you’re standing perfectly still, staring at the camera. They’re the ones where you’re laughing with your best friends, wiping away happy tears, or stealing a quiet moment with your new spouse.

So, how do you ensure your wedding photos feel effortless and real? Here are my top tips for getting those beautifully candid moments you’ll treasure forever.

1. Choose a Photographer Who Specializes in Candid Photography

Not all photographers shoot the same way. Some prefer a more traditional, posed approach, while others focus on documentary-style storytelling. When looking for a wedding photographer, check their portfolio to see if their style aligns with the natural, in-the-moment feel you’re looking for.

A great way to find out if a photographer can capture those raw emotions is by asking them:

• How do you approach candid moments during a wedding day?

• Do you give prompts to encourage natural interactions?

• What’s your strategy for capturing genuine emotion?

If their answers resonate with you, you’re on the right track!

2. Schedule an Engagement Session First

An engagement session is the perfect opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera before your wedding day. Many couples feel awkward at first, but I promise—it gets easier! During the session, I’ll guide you with fun prompts rather than stiff poses, so you get used to being photographed in a relaxed, natural way.

By the time your wedding arrives, you’ll feel like a pro, and your candid photos will look even more effortless!

3. Forget the Camera is There

The best candid wedding photos happen when you’re fully present in the moment. Instead of worrying about how you look, focus on the emotions of the day—hugging your parents, sharing inside jokes with your bridal party, or dancing like nobody’s watching.

I always remind my couples: The more you focus on enjoying your wedding day, the more natural your photos will be.

4. Plan for Meaningful Moments

While candid moments happen naturally, a little planning can help create the perfect atmosphere for them to unfold. Consider:

• A private first look – This allows for an intimate, emotional moment without distractions.

• Reading letters to each other – A heartfelt exchange before the ceremony often leads to genuine reactions.

• A relaxed timeline – Rushing through the day makes it harder to soak in each moment.

Giving yourself space to breathe and be present ensures more opportunities for stunning, emotion-filled photos.

5. Interact with Your Loved Ones

Rather than posing stiffly, I encourage couples to interact naturally. Try:

• Whispering something sweet (or funny!) to each other.

• Walking hand in hand while reminiscing about your first date.

• Twirling, hugging, or swaying to music.

Movement creates genuine reactions, and those small, in-between moments often turn into the best photos!

6. Trust Your Photographer & Let Go of Perfection

It’s natural to want every detail to be just right, but don’t stress over trying to look perfect in every shot. Some of the most touching images come from unexpected moments—the wind catching your veil, a tear slipping down your cheek, or a burst of uncontrollable laughter.

As your photographer, I’ll guide you when needed, but I’ll also step back and let the magic of the day unfold naturally. Trust the process, be yourself, and your photos will reflect the love and joy of your wedding day!

Let's Wrap It Up

Candid wedding photos aren’t just about snapping random pictures—they’re about capturing the emotions, relationships, and real moments that make your wedding uniquely yours. By choosing the right photographer, embracing the moment, and letting go of perfection, you’ll get a collection of wedding photos that feel authentic and full of love.

Are you looking for a wedding photographer who specializes in natural, candid photography? Let’s chat! I’d love to document your love story in a way that feels effortless and real.